Spring Cleaning without the chemicals

OILS FOR A MORE NATURAL HOME

Spring is the perfect time to start detoxing the amount of chemicals you use on a daily basis in your home. You don’t need to do it overnight, as you finish cleaners at home replace with natural alternatives - see recipes below. Previously on our Instagram lives, we were joined by archaeologist, climate ambassador and wellness advocate with @doTERRA oils Ana Sofia Fonseca for an inspiring chat on how to make your own cleaning products using essential oils.

Removing chemicals from your home not only has a big impact on the toxins that you and your family are exposed to on a daily basis, but also our environment. Recent scientific research has show that these common chemicals can disrupt our endocrine or immune systems.

When you think of your cleaning product cupboard, how many bottles do you see?

Quality marketing has lead us to believe that we need a different plastic bottle of cleaning product for each little area of our homes. But Ana Sofia guided us through how we can reduce this down to 3-4 bottles of homemade cleaning products that smell wonderful and are not toxic to your health.

And it couldn’t be easier & they really work!

*Interview is saved on our @escapadahealth IGTV grid


  1. FRUIT + VEGGIE WASH

  • 4 cups water

  • 1 table spoon of cider vinegar

  • 10 drops lemon oil

In a large bowl, mix water, vinegar, and lemon oil. Submerge produce in the bowl. Stir produce by hand and make sure that all produce comes into contact with the lemon essential oil. Let it sit in the water for 6 minutes. Rinse with a strainer.


2. MULTI-PURPOSE SURFACE SPRAY

  • 500 ml amber glass spray bottle

  • 2 tbsp on guard cleaner concentrate or castille soap

  • 10 drops Siberian fir essential oil

  • 10 drops lemongrass essential oil

Add the On Guard cleaner concentrate or castle soap and essential oils. Fill to top with water.

Spray and wipe!


3. WINDOW + MIRROR SPRAY CLEANER

  • 500 ml amber glass spray bottle

  • 3 tbsp distilled white vinegar

  • 2 tbsp rubbing alcohol

  • 5 drops lemon or grapefruit essential oil

Add all ingredients into a spray bottle and shake well. Spray windows, mirrors and wipe down with microfiber cloth, or paper towel. Store unused solution up to 3 months.


4. BATHROOM DEEP CLEANER

Small jar

1 cup of Bicarbonate of soda

10 drops of melaleuca essential oil

10 drop of lemon essential oil

Add the ingredients to a glass jar and mix well. Wet the surface to be cleaned with water or vinegar or multipurpose surface spray and sprinkle with the cleaner.

Leave for 10-15 minutes and scrub with a sponge. Rinse with water.


5. HAND SOAP

  • Jar with a hand pump

  • 3 cups water

  • 3/4 cup Castile Soap/ Savon de Marseille

  • Dash of witch hazel

  • 1 tablespoon of Fractionated coconut oil

  • 10- 20 drops of chosen essential oil

Put the water, castile soap, witch hazel and coconut oil into the jar. Add 10 to 20 drops of your favourite essential oil.

We suggest: Onguard for anti bacterial, Wild orange & lime, lavender.

Spring Cleaning without the chemicals

OILS FOR A MORE NATURAL HOME

Spring is the perfect time to start detoxing the amount of chemicals you use on a daily basis in your home. You don’t need to do it overnight, as you finish cleaners at home replace with natural alternatives - see recipes below. Previously on our Instagram lives, we were joined by archaeologist, climate ambassador and wellness advocate with @doTERRA oils Ana Sofia Fonseca for an inspiring chat on how to make your own cleaning products using essential oils.

Removing chemicals from your home not only has a big impact on the toxins that you and your family are exposed to on a daily basis, but also our environment. Recent scientific research has show that these common chemicals can disrupt our endocrine or immune systems.

When you think of your cleaning product cupboard, how many bottles do you see?

Quality marketing has lead us to believe that we need a different plastic bottle of cleaning product for each little area of our homes. But Ana Sofia guided us through how we can reduce this down to 3-4 bottles of homemade cleaning products that smell wonderful and are not toxic to your health.

And it couldn’t be easier & they really work!

*Interview is saved on our @escapadahealth IGTV grid


  1. FRUIT + VEGGIE WASH

  • 4 cups water

  • 1 table spoon of cider vinegar

  • 10 drops lemon oil

In a large bowl, mix water, vinegar, and lemon oil. Submerge produce in the bowl. Stir produce by hand and make sure that all produce comes into contact with the lemon essential oil. Let it sit in the water for 6 minutes. Rinse with a strainer.


2. MULTI-PURPOSE SURFACE SPRAY

  • 500 ml amber glass spray bottle

  • 2 tbsp on guard cleaner concentrate or castille soap

  • 10 drops Siberian fir essential oil

  • 10 drops lemongrass essential oil

Add the On Guard cleaner concentrate or castle soap and essential oils. Fill to top with water.

Spray and wipe!


3. WINDOW + MIRROR SPRAY CLEANER

  • 500 ml amber glass spray bottle

  • 3 tbsp distilled white vinegar

  • 2 tbsp rubbing alcohol

  • 5 drops lemon or grapefruit essential oil

Add all ingredients into a spray bottle and shake well. Spray windows, mirrors and wipe down with microfiber cloth, or paper towel. Store unused solution up to 3 months.


4. BATHROOM DEEP CLEANER

Small jar

1 cup of Bicarbonate of soda

10 drops of melaleuca essential oil

10 drop of lemon essential oil

Add the ingredients to a glass jar and mix well. Wet the surface to be cleaned with water or vinegar or multipurpose surface spray and sprinkle with the cleaner.

Leave for 10-15 minutes and scrub with a sponge. Rinse with water.


5. HAND SOAP

  • Jar with a hand pump

  • 3 cups water

  • 3/4 cup Castile Soap/ Savon de Marseille

  • Dash of witch hazel

  • 1 tablespoon of Fractionated coconut oil

  • 10- 20 drops of chosen essential oil

Put the water, castile soap, witch hazel and coconut oil into the jar. Add 10 to 20 drops of your favourite essential oil.

We suggest: Onguard for anti bacterial, Wild orange & lime, lavender.

Starting the New Year Prioritising Self Care

Modern-day living has become a juggling act. When we have a lot of pressures, from workload to personal stresses, we mistake the feeling of being under stress for having energy. You run from early morning until late at night, turning yourself into an energiser bunny! In the microcosm of the world that is our body, it is not uncommon for us to exhaust our energetic and nutritional resources. Between holding down a job, maintaining relationships, and caring for a family, we can often negate the energy we earn from sleep, good food and good company. Our daily needs repeatedly outpace our daily intake of energy and the concept of a healthy lifestyle and self-care, or the meaning of, can go out the window. 

Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) has been a lifestyle medicine for thousands of years. This means that it is composed of 80% lifestyle/self-care and 20% treatment. In this sense, lifestyle means the way you live every day, how you get up in the morning, what you eat and drink, how you move, what you think and believe in and much more. If there is illness, the illness is treated; if there is no illness, the body is strengthened. Prevention is therefore the main focus rather than waiting for dis-ease to occur. Health is not just the absence of disease, but a feeling of wholeness, resilience and vitality.  In Chinese medicine, self-care is called Yang Sheng which directly translates as ‘nourish life’. Yang Sheng is the self-care part of Chinese medicine which means your self-care practices give you an amazing self-healing system/toolbox, it serves as your daily health maintenance. There is an ancient Chinese proverb: ‘

a drop of prevention is better than a bucketload of cure’.

Nurturing our bodies and our health a little every day is key to a year-round health and well-being system.

  • WHAT DOES SELF-CARE REALLY MEAN?

There is a misconception that self-care just means warm baths and massages. Self-care encompasses anything that you do for yourself to support your physical, emotional, and spiritual health and well-being, it acts as daily health maintenance. A western approach can often be focused on treating disease when it arises, but in China, the mentality is that if you fall sick it is a failure of your Yang Sheng, your daily health maintenance. Basically, your self-care practices should aim to rebalance and resolve all the little niggles that later on can become a health problem/disease. 

We can, at times, follow others’ lead in terms of their self-care rituals but meaningful self-care routines mean taking a moment and tuning into yourself and figuring out what serves you and your health the best, taking into account where your life is at that point. To a busy working mom having a coffee in a cafe by herself might mean self-care but for another, it might be attending her Monday night yoga class to start the week in the best way. 

We all have different needs so take a moment and figure out yours. This approach offers you your own timeless and evolving daily preventative health toolbox, it can be very empowering. Yang Sheng is a concept from ancient China from 5,000 years ago and remains just as relevant today - they really do have it all figured out. 

  • HOW CAN YOU BEST INCORPORATE SELF-CARE INTO YOUR LIFE?

Start small and work your way up. People who succeed have momentum. The more they succeed, the more they want to succeed, and the more they find a way to succeed. Similarly, when someone is failing, the tendency is to get on a downward spiral that can even become a self-fulfilling prophecy. 

Therefore we always invite our clients to choose 4 things (or even less) that they would like to incorporate into their life. It is not limited to 4 but it is important to keep it manageable and small, and build your way up. One self-care practice might simply be to get up 10 minutes earlier and do a 5-minute meditation or practice gratitude. Once these 4 things become part of your habit, lifestyle or mindset (like brushing your teeth, you wouldn’t dream of not brushing your teeth) - repeat this exercise again. This might be in a month or 6 months’ time. The important aspect is, that you are able to maintain these changes and set yourself up for continued success. 

A common trap we can fall into with a modern mindset of doing too much, when it comes to self-care less is more but practicing it mindfully and continuing is the key. 

  • WHAT ARE THE POSITIVE IMPACTS THAT THESE SELF-CARE STEPS CAN HAVE ON YOUR LIFE?

The positive impacts are endless, from your energy, sleep, digestion, hormonal health, emotional well-being and the list goes on. It can sometimes be hard to see the true benefit because you are preventing imbalances every day that would have happened if not for your self-care practices. For example, a simple 1-minute gua sha routine to release tension in the face and jaw can help to prevent headaches, migraines, dental issues and TMJ problems, etc. Like I said at the beginning it is so important for each individual to reflect and decide what self-care practices suit them best and their life, at that particular time. If someone is going through a really stressful time at work or in their personal life, a 5-minute meditation practice can help you manage your stress and in turn make better decisions, improve relationships. These knock-on effects are worth their weight in gold. Self-care can sometimes be viewed as ‘selfish’ but actually, the effect of you practicing good self-care practices ripples out to your family, children, colleagues - you can’t get more positive than that. 

Detoxing Your Home

Oils for a more natural home

Spring is the perfect time to start detoxing the amount of chemicals you use on a daily basis in your home. This month, on our Instagram interviews, we were joined by archaeologist, climate ambassador and wellness advocate with @doTERRA oils Ana Sofia Fonseca for an inspiring chat on how to make your own cleaning products using essential oils.

Removing chemicals from your home not only has a big impact on the toxins that you and your family are exposed to on a daily basis, but also our environment. Recent scientific research has show that these common chemicals can disrupt our endocrine or immune systems.

When you think of your cleaning product cupboard, how many bottles do you see?

Quality marketing has lead us to believe that we need a different plastic bottle of cleaning product for each little area of our homes. But Ana Sofia guided us through how we can reduce this down to 3-4 bottles of homemade cleaning products that smell wonderful and are not toxic to your health.

And it couldn’t be easier & they really work!

*Interview is saved on our @escapadahealth IGTV grid


  1. Fruit + Veggie Wash

  • 4 cups water

  • 1 table spoon of cider vinegar

  • 10 drops lemon oil

In a large bowl, mix water, vinegar, and lemon oil. Submerge produce in the bowl. Stir produce by hand and make sure that all produce comes into contact with the lemon essential oil. Let it sit in the water for 6 minutes. Rinse with a strainer.


2. Multi-Purpose Surface Spray

  • 500 ml amber glass spray bottle

  • 2 tbsp on guard cleaner concentrate or castille soap

  • 10 drops Siberian fir essential oil

  • 10 drops lemongrass essential oil

Add the On Guard cleaner concentrate or castle soap and essential oils. Fill to top with water.

Spray and wipe!


3. Window + Mirror Spray Cleaner

  • 500 ml amber glass spray bottle

  • 3 tbsp distilled white vinegar

  • 2 tbsp rubbing alcohol

  • 5 drops lemon or grapefruit essential oil

Add all ingredients into a spray bottle and shake well. Spray windows, mirrors and wipe down with microfiber cloth, or paper towel. Store unused solution up to 3 months.


4. Bathroom deep cleaner

Small jar

1 cup of Bicarbonate of soda

10 drops of melaleuca essential oil

10 drop of lemon essential oil

Add the ingredients to a glass jar and mix well. Wet the surface to be cleaned with water or vinegar or multipurpose surface spray and sprinkle with the cleaner.

Leave for 10-15 minutes and scrub with a sponge. Rinse with water.


5. Hand Soap

  • Jar with a hand pump

  • 3 cups water

  • 3/4 cup Castile Soap/ Savon de Marseille

  • Dash of witch hazel

  • 1 tablespoon of Fractionated coconut oil

  • 10- 20 drops of chosen essential oil

Put the water, castile soap, witch hazel and coconut oil into the jar. Add 10 to 20 drops of your favourite essential oil.

We suggest: Onguard for anti bacterial, Wild orange & lime, lavender.


You can find Sofia here - @essentialsofiafonseca ・ www.sofia-fonseca.com

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Winter Wellness

SEASONAL ROUTINES

Seasonal routines are a vital cornerstone of health, year around. Balancing the nature of your local climate with lifestyle choices that offset the potential for seasonally-induced imbalances is one of the simplest ways that you can protect your well-being.

Winter is Yin in nature; it is inactive, cold, and damp in contrast to the Summer which is yang in nature; active, hot and dry. So of course our habits and diet must change accordingly. In terms of five elements, Winter is ruled by the water element, which is associated with the kidneys, bladder, and adrenal glands. The kidneys are considered the source of all energy (Qi) within the body. There is a good reason why many animals slow right down, or even hibernate, in Winter - their metabolic rate, breathing and heart rates decrease in order to conserve energy and survive adverse weather conditions. And Winter is the time for us to have our own form of hibernation too, to take the time to go inwards, to work with the passive nature and yielding energy of yin as we build up our defences and regain our strength in preparation for the coming year and the surges of energy that Spring will call for.

What happens during this period lays the seed for the following year.

It is the perfect time for us to embrace the stillness, calmness and introspection, and to take the opportunity for some self-reflection, reconnecting with our inner being as we set our intentions for the start of the new cycle.

Taking Care of our Kidneys

  • GET OUTDOORS EVERY DAY

While most of us are taught to fear the sun, moderate sun exposure is a must. As the days grow shorter and cooler and we’re less likely to be outside, we are getting dramatically less day-to-day sun, which can affect our health and our mood. 

Not only is sun important for the production of vitamin D, an essential nutrient that helps to fight inflammation and protect us from cancer, research has found that exposure to the sun in appropriate amounts offers numerous other health benefits.

These include enhancing the mood and boosting energy levels through the release of endorphins, treating skin conditions like dermatitis and psoriasis, relieving the pain of fibromyalgia and inducing nitric oxide, which helps to protect the skin against UV damage as well as promoting wound healing and offering cardiovascular protection.

Even during the winter, it’s important to get outdoors. Just ten minutes a day will give your body the message to make more vitamin D, and it’s likely to boost your mood too. 

  • WINTER EXERCISE

Good circulation is the foundation of our health. Efficient circulation keeps the cells of the immune system moving, so that they can work effectively. It also encourages lymphatic drainage, which clears toxic waste. Therefore, exercise is one of the best ways to support optimal physical and mental health through the winter months. Intense exercise consumes energy that we should be conserving during winter.

Practice slower, less intensive exercise routines that need less expenditure of energy. During exercise aim to only break a very mild sweat, if at all, to help conserve your energy. Activities such as gentle yoga, Tai Chi and walking are suitable for this time of year

  • Winter Nutrition

Incorporate some miso soup, seaweed and bone broth into your diet. Ensure adequate water intake. Make sure you are drinking high quality, filtered water. Avoid excess salt in your diet. Try and include plenty of black vegetables and fruits in your diet. Keep produce local and seasonal.

  • SLOW DOWN

Slow down.....In general, you’ll want to cultivate a light heart and a sharp sense of purpose this winter in order to counter the cold, grey weather and the seasonal tendency toward melancholy and loneliness. Invite warmth into your mind, body, and relationships, and create frequent opportunities for fun and laughter. Try to avoid rushing. Instead, make a concerted effort to embrace a slower, more relaxed pace through the winter months. This is a great time to engage in meaningful relationships and to socialise, but balance your social self with some quiet time, reflection, and stillness. After all, the slow, heavy qualities of the winter months offer a rare opportunity to retreat and check in with ourselves.

Our bodies benefit from maintaining a predictable routine but will also, benefit from keeping things fresh and a bit unpredictable, so do your best to strike an appropriate balance for yourself. Certain parts of your day—like the times that you rise, work, eat, and sleep—can easily be consistent from one day to the next, while other times of day can provide for some variation and spontaneity. Start your day with a short but invigorating morning routine. It is generally appropriate to sleep a little later in the winter, but you will feel fresher and more motivated if you are up by about 7 a.m

  • FOCUS INWARDS

Important practices to nourish the Water element/energy for winter health include:

  • listening to your body

  • reflecting on who you are

  • accepting yourself as you are

Drive and will, belong to the Water element. Winter is a great time to develop and plant the seed of your intentions. This prepares the soil as you enter the growth energy of spring, where you bring actions to your plans.

It is the time to nurture yourself and reflect on your inner ideas of what you desire for your life. Avoiding entertainment that is overly exciting/dramatic helps your mind to rest and internalise. Instead, seek entertainment that stimulates reflection and contemplation. Curl up beside the fire with a good book or podcast.

Meditation is a great way to slow your mental and emotional system. Focusing inwards reflects the seasonal inward movement of your Yang Qi. A fifteen minutes daily practice can have profound effects throughout your day. All it requires is finding a quiet space and concentrating on your breath.

  • KEEP WARM

Keeping warm is important, cover up and avoid exposure to the cold. In particular, covering up the lower back and neck area when outside. Scarves, beanies, gloves, jumpers and no midriff-baring tops are the way for winter.

Keep your feet warm as the sole of your foot is where the Kidney meridian begins. It is important to not walk barefoot on cold floors, to avoid cold entering into the body.

A hot water footbath before bed, with Epsom salt added, is great to help keep warm and nourish your Water energy. This draws heat away from your head and body. This helps to internalize your thoughts, contributing to a good nights sleep. It cools your body core, inducing melatonin production, which makes us feel sleepy.

  • GET YOUR SEASONAL TUNE UP

A seasonal tune up works in much the same way as getting your car serviced, motorists are advised to regularly  check the oil and water levels,  give the tyres a once over and top up the antifreeze in order to keep their cars running efficiently.   

At certain periods of the year, the body can have difficulty adapting to change and can tire or deplete easily, leaving it more vulnerable to disease. Traditional Chinese medicine recognises this and uses acupuncture to smooth the transition. Acupuncture is known to strengthen your immunity. It not only treats pain but it improves digestion and elimination, balances emotions, strengthens your lungs and strengthens your body’s defenses to get you winter ready.

BOOSTING YOUR LIBIDO with Chinese medicine

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Chinese Medicine & Low Libido

Defining sexual dysfunction is tricky, because we are all individual and have different feelings and expectations regarding what’s ‘normal’ for us, ranging from being highly sexual to rarely interested. However, issues may occur when your own level of sexual interest and function changes, or isn’t aligned with that of your partner. To a certain extent, it’s normal for sexual desire to wax and wane and a low sex drive is often the result of major life changes such as illness, having a baby, menopause or ironically from the pressure of trying to have a baby. When the solution is pills for men, an anti-depressant or injection for women, all with side effects, lets look at a more natural approach, that, yes, will take more time, but it will be so worth it with long lasting results.

In traditional Chinese medicine (TCM), low libido and poor sexual function are often seen as an imbalance of Yin (female energies) and Yang (male energies)

In particular, as they relate to the Kidney organ-meridian system (which in TCM includes not only the kidneys themselves, but also the sexual organs and hormones). When the functioning of the Kidney organ-meridian, Kidney Yin and Kidney Yang are healthy and in balance, sexual vitality and performance are also likely to be strong. However, deficiency of Kidney Yang may dampen sex drive, and low levels of Kidney Yin may decrease stamina and performance (even if the desire for sex remains). Kidney Yin and Kidney Yang perpetually influence each other. All imbalances have different diagnoses in Chinese medicine and are treated with different combinations of herbs and regular acupuncture treatments.

SO WHAT CAN WE DO:

1. Movement

Women can often hold tension and repressed emotions in the pelvic area which can lead to stagnant sexual desire. Repressed emotions don’t disappear, instead, they reveal themselves in unhealthy ways and disrupt harmony in the body. The liver, in Chinese medicine, is believed to play the primary role in regulating and ventilating the flow of qi, blood, and fluids in the body's circulatory systems. The liver meridians regulate the menstrual cycle and circulate blood and hormones to and from the the uterus, ovaries, and sex organs. The Chinese medicine mindful movement Qi Gong, is an amazing movement to bring into your daily routine as there are many styles of qigong that are specifically targeted for circulation in these channels and to get the energy moving. It can help you restore your libido if you practise regularly. This qigong style is unique in that the sexual qi is quickly charged as you do the exercises, which involve shaking and vibrating the sexual organs. If your low libido comes from a place of deficiency rather than stagnation, there are numerous routines and sequences to slowly start building back up your energy and therefore build back up your sexual energy and desire. Overtraining your body can result in depleting already depleted reserves.

2. nourishing nutrition

Healthy sexuality depends on the healthy energy that you put into it, so all the attention we pay to sexuality revolves around good management of Qi (energy). You can’t put pour from an empty cup. In Chinese medicine when we look at treating low libido, we look at nutrition that will strengthen our kidney energy. This is where the real long term solutions come into play. Foods that strengthen kidney yin are red dates, black sesame seeds, seaweed, grains like barley & millet, walnuts, black beans, kidney beans, and veggies like string bean, sweet potato, tomato, water chestnut, yam, zucchini.

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Herbs:
Maca is a root plant native to South America that is said to nourish the endocrine glands which produce and release sex hormones, so improving vaginal sensitivity as well as stimulating the hypothalamus, pituitary and adrenal glands, which in turn support and balance hormones and so boost flagging desire. Add a teaspoonful of the powder to a smoothie or hot drink daily.
If depression and fatigue are responsible for low libido, tonic herbs like ginseng and ashwagandha help build stamina and energy, regulate metabolic rate and protect against mental and emotional stress.

There are also some foods that are known as natural aphrodisiacs. Figs, bananas and avocados are considered libido-boosting and also provide important vitamins and minerals that can increase blood flow to the genitals and promote a health sex life.

As a general rule eat ‘food of love’ - A vibrant, energising, balanced diet plays a major role in delivering the same benefits in the bedroom, while heavy, fatty foods will make you feel sluggish. We all know that food affects your mood, behaviours and most importantly your relationship and sex drive.

3. Treatments

Acupuncture |

Acupuncture is increasingly an applied treatment for numerous sexual health conditions, it has become a popular, natural treatment for improving libido without side effects. Taking a whole body approach to issues like low libido, acupuncturists understand that challenges with libido can be an indication of a deeper, underlying issue. Acupuncture works to restore optimal health rather than suppressing or masking a particular symptom and essentially encouraging your body to do its normal job and functioning - equilibrium.

Acupuncture increases your sex drive by:

  • Improving circulation - Acupuncture promotes blood flow along the pathways that surround the reproductive and other organs that affect sex drive

  • Balancing hormones—Acupuncture helps stimulate hormonal glands

  • Relieving stress—Acupuncture can restore emotional balance and help you relax

  • Your practitioner can also work with you on a range of individual dietary and lifestyle choices that may be preventing your body from being in its optimal sexual health status

Herbal Medicine |

Herbal medicine can be a wonderful way to support your body as your herbalist can combine herbs to make formulas and tonics specific to your individual needs. For example, formulas can be created to nourish your blood in combination with herbs to improve circulation which is vital for hormonal and sexual health. For women, herbs that help to regulate the menstrual cycle and support healthy female reproductive function include white Peony root and Dong Quai.

Tao Hong Si Wu Tang is a popular blood nourishing formula. They are often taken with female reproductive tonics traditionally used to tone and preserve the Yin (such as Rehmannia, Chinese Licorice and Ginger) and promote the flow of Qi (energy) and Blood to the ovaries, uterus and pelvis (such as tangkuei and Chinese Angelica root). Chinese medicine has a long tradition of using safe, gentle aphrodisiacs and may be all you need to get your sex life back on track.

At-Home Acupressure |

Acupressure can be a really lovely way to stimulate circulatory points but to also connect with your partner with touch. Touching is a powerful thing, especially in areas that relate to a holistic view of your partner and research shows that the act of physically touching your partner helps create intimacy and relieve stress. So get your favourite oils ready.

  • Give a foot massage & incorporate these points

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KIDNEY 1
On the sole, in the depression when the foot is in plantar flexion, approximately at the anterior third and the posterior two thirds of the line from the web between the 2nd and 3rd toes to the back of the heel.

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SPLEEN 4
On the medial/inside aspect of the foot, in the depression distal and inferior to the base of the first metatarsal bone.


Gently massage Kidney 1 (KI1) and Spleen 4 (SP4), which are both located on the feet. These are considered very powerful points for balancing the subtle energies in the body while simultaneously promoting an increase in blood flow to the core of the body. Both of these points are directly and intimately connected to both the male and female reproductive organs. A foot massage will also give a quick boost of circulation and warmth to the feet, Chinese medicine maintains that cold feet means poor circulation and poor circulation makes it harder to orgasm. This may also give you a pass to continue wearing socks during sex!!

• Massage Stomach 30

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Level with the superior edge of the pubic bone, 2 cun (roughly 2 finger- breaths) lateral to the mid-line. It can also be found halfway from the midline to the lateral border of the rectus abdominis muscle at that level. Stomach 30 (ST30) is right near a main artery, which again, helps to increase blood flow in the body. Slowly press on this pressure point for a few seconds, hold, and release.

4. Self Care

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Join Forces |
In ancient Chinese medicine philosophy, yin and yang (night/day, hot/cold) is a concept of dualism, describing how seemingly opposite or contrary forces may actually be complementary, interconnected, and interdependent in the natural world, and how they may give rise to each other as they interrelate to one another. These interactions require a mutual interdependence and connection. Poor sexual health and low libido can often have roots in a lack of connection with your partner. This can happen for a variety of reasons, lack of time, stress, busy schedules with children etc. Make time for date night or allow space where intimacy and connection can happen.
From a Chinese medicine perspective, sex, in the context of a supportive relationship, is important. The Taoist sages would say that having sex connects us energetically to our partners. This is known as He Qi, which literally means “joining energy.” It refers to the way that in a good sexual relationship, both partners contribute energy to each other. By doing this, the Taoists believed that it was possible to use sex to increase lifespan and heal the body.

Sleep & Time |
Many of us have a hectic lifestyle that can lead to sleep deprivation. Being busy also makes it difficult to make time for sex and intimacy. People who balance work with caring for aging parents or young children are often left exhausted, which can lead to a reduced sex drive. It is like during from an empty cup. At times we all need to reflect where we can cut down on unnecessary stress or rushing around. Try and prioritise what needs to be done in the week, you may have more time than you think on your hands.

Stress Management |
No matter how healthy you are, being stressed out can affect your sex drive and decrease your kidney Qi (energy). Women are particularly susceptible to the effects that stress can have on one’s sex life, according to research. Try to manage the stress in your life with rituals and practices that resonate with you, such as mindful movement (yoga, Qi Gong), meditation, time for you. This also allows time for connection with yourself, as if this is lost than connection with others can be hard.